Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.
Are you craving greater connection and intimacy with the important people in your life?
Believe it or not, the first step is to deeply connect with yourself, who you are, and your inherent value and goodness as a human being.
This program is designed to help you transform how you feel about yourself, talk to yourself, make choices for yourself, and tend to your own heart.
Fall in love with yourself and transform the fear and defenses that keep you separate.
Rupi Kaur
You Can Live Your Life in Love
Would you like to create a relationship with yourself one based on love and acceptance?
Would you like to quiet the critic and ease the judgements?
Are you wanting more harmony and ease in your relationships?
At HAI Global, we believe that strong, thriving relationships start with a foundation of self-love. During the first part of the program – the weekend workshop – our Facilitators will guide you in gentle, yet profound, exercises to help you build an understanding of the ways that you show yourself love (or not). This is an important step towards becoming a better partner, lover, family member and friend.
With this self-loving foundation, you’ll learn essential tools for communication that are the underpinnings for creating joyful and satisfying relationships. You’ll strengthen your ability to manage conflict by learning new ways of setting boundaries, listening, and asking for what you need and want.
For more than 50 years, HAI Global has been supporting people like you in having the kind of life they want and the kinds of relationships they want. Now is your opportunity. You are worth it.
PROMISE 1
Experience new ways to express authentic love and affection for yourself
PROMISE 2
Learn to set intentional boundaries, even in challenging circumstances
PROMISE 3
A loving and safe environment to support your personal growth
Program Overview
The Loving Me, Loving You program has two parts. First, we invite you to attend online weekend sessions in which you will experience engaging exercises designed to raise your awareness and strengthen your ability to cultivate healthy, loving relationships with yourself and others. Our Facilitators use a variety a ways to engage – small group breakouts, paired sharing, large group integration, and solo introspection.
Following the weekend sessions are six-weeks of weeknight sessions. With the support of your Facilitators and program cohort, you will be challenged and supported to bring the material you learned in the Loving Me, Loving You workshop into your daily life as you practice your new skills.
What will the Loving Me, Loving You workshop bring into your life?
Participating in this workshop will open your eyes to many simple, yet profound, methods for increasing the love, harmony and happiness in your life. We are social creatures by nature and our relationship to ourselves is the foundation that stems outward into all of our interactions in daily life.
Ideally, we are able to live life as a whole person, who feels secure in our choices, needs and personality. However, most of us have had experiences in our lives that have broken trust, or made it difficult for us to be fully self-expressed.
Most of the time people begin relationships with love, but struggle to communicate and live in such a way that their love stays strong. When one or more people don’t feel whole, a relationship is turned into hard work.
Consider the metaphor of a lighthouse for clear communication. At the beginning stages of a relationship, our lighthouses (or inner-selves) shine brightly. Each person is able to fully see and appreciate the gifts the other person offers as they beam love outwards. As time goes on, and break-down occurs, relationship “muck” gets smeared onto the windowpanes of the relationship. This makes it tough for the light to shine through.
If we do not pro-actively “clean-up” and repair misunderstandings, miscommunications, differences of needs or opinions… over time our ability to see our partner’s light dims, as it is covered up by “everything that got in the way.”
This workshop will help shine light on the places that need your attention. It will offer you unique and impactful experiences that will open your heart and bring love back in.
Have you ever come away from a workshop thinking that you got the key ideas and the magnitude of the transformative experience while at the workshop, but then struggled to apply what you learned in your daily life? Developing any new skill takes time and practice – which is why we’re offering this program to ensure that you have someone to walk beside you as you continue to grow and develop yourself.
The evening sessions are designed to accelerate, refine, and reinforce your understanding and experience of the concepts offered in our workshops. At each weekly meeting, you will receive coaching, share your insights with others, and gain confidence in what you have learned.
We look forward to welcoming you to an experience that will sharpen your skills and enrich your relationships with love, clarity, and connection. That which you integrate can be yours for life.
Sample topics for further exploration in the evening sessions are:
- Heart-centered communication
- Courageously and kindly speaking your truth
- Listening so that others feel deeply understood
- Self-Love
- Treat yourself with love and kindness
- Learn to look at yourself with loving regard, as you would with a good friend or lover
- Understand and practice self-compassion
- Healthy boundaries
- Practice identifying and speaking your boundaries
- Increase your ability to fully hear and respect others’ boundaries
- Observe how clear boundaries actually create more freedom within your interactions
- Self-protection strategies
- Expand awareness of unconscious or automatic self-protection strategies that no longer benefit you and your relationships. Practice choosing an alternative behavior
- Develop the ability to meet challenging situations with self-love and compassion for others
- Enhance and strengthen all of your relationships with a heart-centered approach to disagreement
- Appreciations
- Create more love and connection in your life by making this tool more natural and familiar to you
- Expand the joy you feel as your appreciations shift your perspective and attention towards the positive aspects of your life
“HAI Global has absolutely transformed my relationship to myself, to romance, to intimacy and to love. I am grateful for their tutelage and highly advocate their courses and classes to anyone seeking greater satisfaction in their relationships to themselves and others. Loving Me, Loving You is the latest example of the power of their work and having recently taken the course, I highly recommend it – especially to those who haven’t experienced a HAI workshop yet!” – Greg R, Oakland, CA
Program Details
HAI's Loving Me, Loving You Online Weekend Sessions
March 1, 2025
Online | Zoom Meeting
The workshop takes place on Saturday.
9:00 AM-4:30 PM Pacific Time* (with a one hour meal break)
*Due to the nature of the work, breaks and end time are approximate
6-Week Online
Weeknight sessions
Tuesdays March 4 – April 15, 2025.
No session April 1
Online | Zoom Meeting
The practicum takes place over 6 weeks in 6 sessions.
5:00 PM-7:30 PM Pacific Time*
*Due to the nature of the work, end time is approximate
Loving Me, Loving You Program
The full program includes:
- A one-day online workshop intensive
- Accountability & support buddy
- Weeknight sessions that meets weekly for 6 weeks
- Intimate group to create a safe space
- One-on-one and group coaching
- Comprehensive workbook with journal prompts
We are currently offering this program for $795. You can pay all at once or opt for our installment plan – $200 down and 3 monthly payments of $211.59.
This program is for individuals who are 18 years or older.
Registration closes 24 hours before the event starts.
HAI has need based and diversity scholarships available.
“I felt taken care of and safe enough to go deep and express fully in the moment. I thank each of you for the heartfelt way you treated each of us.” ~F.F.